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The most important lessons I learnt from building a blog

Starting your own blog is daunting and overwhelming! There’s no doubt about it. I want to share a list of the most important lessons I learnt from building my blog. I hope it will help you get over the first step hurdle and inspire you to follow your dreams. If blogging is something you really want to do but the thought of putting it is paralysing!

If you’re anything like me, then you’ve probably been procrastinating about starting a blog for months now, if not years; You would’ve spent hours on your laptop googling topics about how to start a blog, how to build a website, do I need to code, etc. And by this point, you’d be completely overwhelmed with all the information and move into the too-hard basket or let’s-do-this-later basket. I’m not going to lie, building a blog/website was (still is) foreign territory for me, but I realise that once I stopped researching and actually start putting what I’ve learned into action, then it became less scary… and it turned out to be quite fun! Here are some of my lessons learnt and the mental blocks I had to overcome in order to see the blog live. I hope you find them useful and be inspired to build that beautiful blog of yours!!

Here are my top 5 most important lessons learnt from building a blog

1.  Stop the research and start building

As I mentioned earlier, I spent a lot of time researching and reading how-to’s, and forums as well as checking out other established blogs of design inspirations etc. Unsurprisingly, there is a truckload of free information available on the internet. A simple google search will return all sorts of information… some really useful and others not so useful. I spent hours and days going through them all. Often one article will lead you to more new articles as you came across a new term that you have no idea of such as SEO, plug-ins, widgets, sliders etc. However, at some point, I just had to say enough is enough and just get on with it. I forced myself to put what I learnt into action. And honestly, this was the best decision ever!

2.  Set a launch date

So this is what I didn’t do but wish I did! The problem with not setting a date is that you don’t have a ‘goal’ to work towards. We all know what happens when you don’t have an end goal…! Too much time was spent researching and then procrastinating, more researching and then procrastinating. Before I knew it, 4 weeks had passed and I still haven’t got a design. Whilst the research had been useful, I didn’t need to do ALL the research upfront. Therefore, it is very important to set a launch date and ensure you work towards it.

3.  Choose a theme and don’t compare

As I was choosing a design for my blog, I checked out countless established blogs for inspiration. Needless to say, I came across so many beautiful and professional-looking ones and every time I settle on a theme, I would be like no, it doesn’t have grids on the homepage like so and so’s blog, it doesn’t have multiple pages like another blog… I wanted my blog to look like everyone else’s but mine. Therefore, I searched and tried out many different WordPress templates with the hope to find one that miraculously would contain all the features I like. Obviously, that one doesn’t exist because all the well-established bloggers would’ve got a professional developer to design and build a theme just for them. So just make a list of your must-haves and nice-to-have features in the design, and find a theme that contains all your must-haves with the aesthetic you like and has strong customisation capabilities. Then you can change and make the design yours.

Most important lessons I learnt from building a blog

4.  It is ok to settle as it is not forever

I decided to settle for my current design as it allows for a lot of customisation so I can change the design to exactly how I want it. I am so happy with how it has turned out. Of course, there will always be more things I want to add to the blog and more themes to play around with. I could continue searching for more templates but at the end of the day, launching the blog and starting writing is more important right? I also know that I am not stuck with this design forever and I can always change the look and feel of it in the future when I get bored with this one. So just work with what you’ve got right now. Maybe one day, you can also hire a professional developer to design your blog for you too.

5.  But the most important lessons I learnt from building a blog is to Just go for it!

My final point is to just go for it! It is not as scary as it sounds. Once you spend some time working on it, a lot of the technical things will make more sense. Say no to procrastination and just make it happen. These days, you really don’t need to be technical to build a website. There are so many ready-to-go templates that you can adopt and make work for you. What’s even better is that most of them are free! So get creative, have fun and remember… “you can be as naughty as you want, just don’t get caught”. 😉

So there you have it. These are the most important lessons I learnt from building a blog. I hope you found these tips helpful. Have you just started a blog yourself? What were your lessons learnt? Please comment below, I would love to hear your thoughts!

…by J

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  1. Alan Xing says:

    Great post babesy, love those photos

    1. Thanksss!! Even better photographer!! 😉 Xx

  2. Love this! And oh so true – I felt every single one of these feelings too. Love the last point, just go for it!! 🙂 x

    1. Thanks Lauren!! Yeah definitely… that point is a reminder for me to not procrastinate and “just go for it”! 😊 thanks for reading & commenting. Xx

  3. I can identify with so many of these!

    1. Thanks Leela! Glad to know that it is not just me going through all those emotional rollercoaster…!! Hehe 😊 thanks for reading! Xx

  4. This was so helpful thank you its put alot into perpective for me

    1. Thank you Amber. I am glad you found it helpful. I need to remind myself about these points now and then so that I am not tempted to keep dwelling on the design… lol xx

  5. These are great tips. I just started my blog and I’m always in doubt of themes, research, and all. Thank you for sharing this.

    1. Hi Vedina, welcome to the blogging world. Don’t worry, I am still fighting the urge to revisit the theming side of things!! Haha… Your blog looks so professional!! Are you sure just started blogging?? 🙂
      Thanks for visiting. Xx

  6. GO FOR IT! In life and in blog! 👊👊👊

    1. Absolutely!! Thanks for reading!! Xx

      1. Learned a lot, too! ❤️ Now following ❤️

  7. I can so relate to these! Thanks for writing this useful post girl! I do feel ovwewhelmed with all the infos and things I need to learn as a starter blogger but Im also super excited and have fun doing it! 🙂



    1. Thank you for reading hun. So glad it is not just me!! Yes, I would never have thought how involved blogging really is?! I am enjoying it too!! Look forward to connecting with you through our blogs…

      J xx

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